Seven years ago, when our neighbour in Burton asked me if I would be writing a blog, I decided that I would do so, but only under the following conditions:
- I would regularly update it.
- I would write in my own style with references to my favourite poets and writers:
- I would attempt to write to multiple audiences of students, staff, parents, Corporation members……
- I would refer to my beloved Leeds United because I believe that there are many parallels between leading a football team and a College.
- My blog would be celebratory and transmit key messages and values.
“All the world’s a stage
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and entrances
And one man in his time plays many parts
…. (in the fifth age) And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lin’d,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part….”
In my ‘fifth  age’ during the half-term week, we travelled to Hay-on-Wye, to stay with  friends and attend the annual Hay Festival.   Whilst the festival was certainly stimulating with many renowned world  “experts” and authors, (and convinced me that a second referendum or vote in  Parliament on Brexit is essential), our most memorable moments were with our  friends.  Their generosity, humour,  support and intellectual challenge were life-affirming.  The opportunity to think and reflect is so  important and I feel incredibly privileged that my role enables me to do so.
We travelled  to the Festival after attending our Sports Presentation evening on the  Friday.  It was amazing to see so many of  you (staff, students and friends), looking so beautiful, ready to party and  celebrate your amazing achievements.  I  was truly humbled by the presentation and achieved a “first” for me.  I have always wanted to have “minders” and in  Chris and Andy, I had the very best.  To  be serenaded by Toni, Kate and Hollie from the PE Department was unforgettable  and the words rang back to me as I drove home to Burton:
“We’ve  come so far and we’ve reached so high….
  We’ve  come a long way
  But  we’re not sure where we’ve been
  We’ve  had success, we’ve had good times
  But  remember this….
  Never  forget where you’re coming from
  Never  pretend that it’s all real
  Someday  soon this will all be someone else’s dream”,                Take  That
  
Thank you to  Mark and the team who made it so special.  
When I  returned to College after half-term, it was clear that the examination season  is truly underway.  I was delighted to  learn about how so many of you came into College for revision, support sessions  and to use our facilities.  Thank you to  all of the staff who came in specially to support you and put in the “extra  mile”.  This is what makes our College so  special.  Long may it continue.
As we approach  the end of an academic year and (for me), the end of an era, the starting line  from Dickens comes to mind:
“It was the best  of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age  of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it  was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of  hope, it was the winter of despair,….”    A Tale of Two Cities
So  many things have happened at our College (in the short and medium-term): the  amazing academic success that you have achieved; the range of national  accolades for so many of you (academic, intellectual, sporting, musical,  dramatics, dance), the success in competitions….  The reputation that we have in the local,  regional and national arena is phenomenal.   It is a testament to the superb work that takes place day in and day out  by every one of you.  It is therefore no  surprise that some of you spend over an hour travelling into College and that  our College has ‘grown’ from 1300 to just under 2000 full-time students.
I  maintain that the range of trips, visits and residentials, is truly unique:  Iceland, Italy, South Africa, Thailand, Germany, Belgium, France, Tanzania, New  York, Washington, Spain, Poland; all in the last few years.  There are very few colleges that can boast  such a range and I believe that the ‘sorts’ of experiences that are gained from  such visits are ‘life changing’.
I  hope that you will retain very fond memories of our College, the trips, the  visits, the staff, the colleagues, the fun, the laughter, the friendships that  exist and the hard work of everyone around you.   Remember that all of us have to work hard in order to enjoy the success  that follows.
“You  are never really playing an opponent.   You are playing yourself, your own highest standards, and when you reach  your limits that is real joy”,                                                                      Arthur  Ashe
So  what of my beloved Leeds?  We have  changed managers (again) and are likely to ‘buy’ an ex-Tigers goal scorer.  I believe (with James, my Leeds compatriot in  the History Department), that this will be the year.  We will hire an outstanding coach, spend the  much-needed money to win in the Championship and get the right team balance  between youth and experience.  This will  be our year.  (Did I say this in 2017?)
Like  my beloved Leeds, I believe that whilst we will be losing some of you, we have  appointed an outstanding team of staff and created the right structure to take  us to the next level.  Exciting times  indeed.
My  advice, as always, is to believe in yourself and take control of your life.
“Always  be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate 
  version  of somebody else”,                                               Judy  Garland    
Love  conquers all, so enjoy and don’t run away from it.  Look for beauty in so much of what happens  around you in our College.  As Khalil Gibran  wrote:
“When love beckons to you, follow him.
  Though his ways are hard and steep.
  And when his wings enfold you, yield to him.
  Though his sword hidden among his pinions may wound  you             
  And when he speaks to you, believe in him.”
Remember  that there are no easy solutions, and the “grass is not always greener”.  Beware of the easy fixes.  As Buddha said:
“If  you find a man who points out faults and who reproves, follow such a wise  person as you would a guide to hidden treasure”.
As  the time approaches to “pass the baton” for others to lead our College to the  next exciting step, remember that we have all played our part in the  journey.  I would like to use the  metaphor of the cedar:
“The  heart, with its ramified feelings, is like a cedar with spreading branches.  If the cedar loses a strong branch, it  suffers, but does not die.  It carries  its vital energy to the neighbouring branch, that will grow and fill the void  with its young green twigs,”                                                            Gibran
I  leave with really fond memories where “we have danced the clumsy dance and sung  the sorrowful song”.  Such bellicose  laughter, fun and exhilarating moments discovering the power of a team.  Thank you to students, staff, friends (near  and far) and family for believing in me.
The  very best of luck to all of you and to the continued success of our  College.  As Bobby D sang,
              “The times they are a-changin'”.
Jay  Trivedy
 
 
Makes absolutely no sense! Good job you're retiring.
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